Unhappy : Ego Talks?

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It has been ages since I write something, I have this tickling feeling while typing this post out. The feeling as if I am talking to myself haha. Anyhow, since this is the first post, thus I wanted to post something fun and happy instead, but after giving some thoughts into it I have the urge to talk about this very specific feeling which is the feeling of unhappy. 

Since starting work, I realized that many people are actually not happy with their life, but why? are they not satisfied with what they had? are they not getting what they want? We all know what does unhappy means, because all of us have days that we are sad, felt especially miserable, empty and lonely. 

While scrolling through our Instagram, we have seen many people posting their glitz and glamorous life and we assume that they are so lucky to have all the needs and wants of life. But little did we know what have they gone through to reach that point of life, also we assume they are happy because they have all the fame and money, but are they truly happy? Well, it is true no money no talk, but we often forgot that money can't buy happiness.

2019 is passing just like any other year. But this year has passed with a lot of tragic stories of celebrities passed away by taking their own life. These celebrities are the so-called "role model" or "idol" that we have always look upon and had always wanting to be like them. We never once gave them room to breathe. Forcing them to live an unrealistic life in which they have to show that they are happy all day long despite facing problems. Which causes them to suffocate and suicide. 

Ok. Noted, let's put celebrities' case aside, we might unable to put ourselves in their shoes. Let's talk about the stress that we faced in our daily life. Be it you're a student, parents, office worker or boss, you never run away from the feeling of unhappiness. I believe all of you do agree that most of the time we felt that our life is empty, we felt that nothing goes our way and no one understands us. We have dreams that we wished to achieve, we have goals and objectives we want to reach, but nothing that we do is going right. Why do we feel as such? 

This is because we have been brainwashed by the society that we must always be good and perfect. Sometimes, it's not that we want to be unhappy, but it was the feeling of emptiness that causes us to not feel happy. It's not because we are not satisfied but it's because the society never felt that it was enough with what we have done. 

Neither you nor I could deflect the society's big mouth, thus without noticing it, we are being sucked into their world. Trying to be what the society deems it was right. 

We often doubt ourselves, "are we good?" because being good is mainstream we should be extraordinary, said the society. But are we happy? Nope, in fact, as we grew older, we became timid. Afraid or rather because we concerned with what the society wants. They say beauty means you have to be tall, fair, flawless skin, skinny ... The list goes on and we followed this list to live a stressful life. Excuse me! There's no such flawless human living on earth.

But, are the society to be blamed? I don't believe that society is to be blamed. They are just being them. Listen we can never satisfy anyone, thus be ourselves, as long as we are not going against the law or hurting anyone why are we even bother with the society's comments? If we find that their comments are offensive, shut them up, prove to them that you are way better than them. You feel down again because of society? Talk to your family or friends someone that is reliable. Talk to them but if we keep on going and say that I am unhappy, no one understands me. Believe it or not, it's all your ego that is talking. 

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Until the day you learn to accept yourself as who you are, you will never understand the meaning of life. Why do I say that your ego is the one that is talking? That is because you blame others as the reason you are unhappy when you should be finding what makes you happy regardless of what others say.

Remember a meaningful life is not defined by you being rich or popular, it's you being humble and being real. Be yourself and able to touch with others, appreciate what we have, set realistic goals. Only then we could have a full happy and contented life. Stand by the things that makes you happy.

I wrote this post to also remind myself, do not listen to what the society claims. 

Thanks for reading such lengthy and dull posts but I hope all of you could really be happy being who you are. Kindly wait for my next post it's gonna be something exciting for all the beauty lovers out there. 

Baihhh. Princess needs some rest. Till then Live a Kurlass Life.